Love ‘Tis a strange thing me thinks. I Love you is very different to I’m in Love with you. Both are unconditional or should be anyway.
I Love you can be used to describe your feelings towards almost anything and we use it almost without thinking. I love football (soccer) (I do not but just as an example). I Love my Mum, I love my cat, car, fishing, music, heavy rock, Guitar, this planet. I love my friends. I also Love my Angel, but because I know Her not, I am not in Love with her. My Angel is Mortal, well I think She is, She could be Fey disguised as Human but I will never know.
To be in love with something usually only relates to a person, unless you are strange and you happen to be in love with your car, then maybe you need to talk to someone about this. Wife, Partner, Husband, These are usually the only ones you are In Love with.
As I said Love should be unconditional, just because you love your car, do not expect it to love you back, and yet songwriters use love as a cosh. To bludgeon the listener into believing that their love is eternal and the best thing since sliced bread and you will love them back just because.
Love is a Raw energy coming from your heart, sex is not love, nor is violence, despite what many young people are brought up believing to be true. I have known this from people I have spoken to, I have seen the black eyes and bruises. But there is nothing that I can do apart from advise the person to leave. And not just the young, but woman of my age as well. Is it any wonder that the kids grow up thinking that this is the norm, and not all of the scars are visible, some are mental.
As Sting once sang, “If you love someone, set them free” and yet if you try to leave you get threats thrown at you. And still some of the biggest things are a Love Reading, or a Love Spell to “Let me find Love” or make “Him/Her fall in Love with me”. Try talking to the light of your life, and maybe you will find out that they are not going to be the light of your life. Just the opposite may well be true in fact.
Setting them Free hurts like hell, I know, but it is something that you should do if you actually realise that they do not have the same feeling towards you. And this can be quickly ascertained with a well-placed and worded conversation. But that is part of the problem is it not. Realising that it is over, and then letting them go and feeling your heart breaking and getting on with life. Sometimes we have a love, which is unattainable, and yet we strive to make it happen, sometimes egged on by a song or a friend. Stalkers are the ones who have gone way to far with their fantasy relationship instead of letting them go, wishing them well and walking away and NEVER going back to try again. To me That is Love, to walk away when it hurts so bad you want to scream to the Gods “Why” but you know that it will never happen in this lifetime, no matter how much you wish for it. Unless you bind them to you to do your will, to love you, but is that Love, or selfishness and cruel.
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